Author Archives: Cecilia S.

About Cecilia S.

After ending a ten year relationship and being let go from her ten year career in banking, Cecilia saw the her options wide open. Although some people would have looked at this as a time of devastation and failure, Ceci saw it as the perfect time to start over. Hence, the birth of “Starting At 30.” Since she always dreamed of seeing the world, she decided to take matters into her own hands. It was time to chase her dreams, start a new career & move to a new city. Going from San Diego to Philadelphia was a huge adjustment, but it’s opened so many opportunities for this Mexican-American adventure seeker. In her spare time, you can find her chasing live music shows and meeting people around the world. She loves hearing stories about following one’s passion, especially if they, too, are Starting At 30. Follow her journey here on the blog, on Instagram, & on Twitter: @StartingAt30.

I love “Myself”

I’m a little late on this, but I’m ok with that…

A couple weeks ago, my favorite female rapper (and friend), Snow Tha Product , released a new music video for her song Myself (featuring DRAM).  The song is all about working hard, reaching your goals and making your dreams come true.  It’s about celebrating your personal accolades and being proud of how far your efforts have taken you.   To quote Snow:

“For them days that I stayed up late all by Myself.

Ain’t no help.

Make that cake and I whip that, bake that by Myself.  

Went through hell.  

So prayed up, waited, look how God done helped.  

Trials I faced, but I got my credit with no cosign and no loan…”

The filming of the music video was literally a dream come true for me.  Snow invited me out to a mansion in LA to play poolside, with piñatas, birthday cake, tacos, turtles, fireworks, and a giraffe.  I got to pop confetti canons and drink shots of patron… and some of this made it in the video. It was an incredible experience! (Thank you, Snow)!!!

When the video was released, Claudia Feliciano – Snow Tha Product –  had (what I would imagine to be) another dream come true.  The young, proud Mexican-American, daughter of immigrants, had her face all up in New York’s City’s Time Square via the music video!  She shared it joyfully on her instagram account.  Felicidades, amiga. You deserve it.

***ps. That means that my face was also up in Time Square. Talk about dreams coming true!

Now, here are some photos from that magical day.

Posing with Little Miss Jae, who plays young Snow in the video.

Myself is the perfect song to wake up to, get ready to, cruise to, and to play at your Memorial Day BBQ this weekend.  Buy it, download it, request it, watch (and share) the video here!

*Also, if you love Snow and the whole Vibe Higher crew’s energy, catch them on tour this summer.  They hit the road next week! Get show info and tickets here.

***Special Thanks to Snow Tha Product for making one of my dreams come true & allowing me to be a part of a music video.

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Beads on Bourbon Street

I got to check something else of my bucket list this week… Mardi Gras in New Orleans! The best part is that I was getting paid to be there, with free hotel & shuttle accommodations… and to top it off, I was in great company.

My honest plan was to stay away from all the mayhem & craziness. I was going to buy dinner, have a beignet, and get some rest… but, my crew had other plans. And I’m so glad I listened to them!

We had a few drinks, ate some food, caught some of the parades, and made our way down the famous Bourbon Street to earn some of those beads! I mean, when in Rome, right? (Sorry, mom & dad)…

Hope your Tuesday was Fat and your drinks were strong (& 3 for 1, like in the Big Easy).

*Special thanks to Brenda & Greg for being my photographers.

Punta Cana with nothing packed

My first trip of 2018 was one for the books… or one for my favorite book – my passport. I got a new stamp thanks to a huge storm in Philadelphia that was causing a declared “state of emergency” in the city.

I received a call at 8am and had two hours to get to the airport. I was supposed to head to Punta Cana & come right back… but after a long delay, a busy flight down, and a cancelled return, we got “stuck” spending the night at an all-inclusive resort. Because of the short notice (and the fact that I was not supposed to layover), I didn’t pack much. On my way out the door, I grabbed some joggers, my favorite Selena T-shirt, and my bikini “just in case.”

I had never seen the Dominican Republic, other than from an airplane window before. So, of course I had to make the most of my short time there.

I’ve mentioned my friend, K, in a previous post about fun times in San Juan, and as you remember, we love to defrost on a beach when winter comes. Between all the food, the perfect weather and clear water calling our names, we spent our layover thanking the Universe.

Sometimes storms work in your favor… and when they do, don’t worry about if you’re packed for it, just count your blessings & float away.

Thanks for stopping by… I’m going to go wash the sand off.

Cuba – Day 3: Old Havana (Photoshoot)

Cat was the perfect partner in crime. She was ready to have a full day dedicated to a photo shoot. 

After primping, we treated ourselves to a mojito (and the spectacular view from the grand garden) at Hotel Nacional, where we paid for wifi and checked in for our flight the next day.  As I mentioned before, the wifi was very unreliable & it was easy to to “disconnect” after checking in.  Besides, living in the moment is preferred in Cuba.

 



Once again, we booked Narki for the day & we headed to La Habana Vieja for some glamour shots. 








Sweaty and all, we wobbled through the cobble stone streets of La Habana Vieja in our stiletto heels, dresses, and full hair & make up.  We took turns shooting each other & soon, Narki, himself, became our official photographer, directing us & shooting on our phones. 

Walking down the streets in our fancy outfits & making heads turn, made us feel like superstars! At one point, I remember Cat saying, “These people wish they were living our photoshoot… or nah?!” Lol it was cute. 


 Not cocky, but confidently, we walked through the streets, spinning, laughing, dancing, holding hands, & interacting with the locals by waiving, blowing kisses, talking, posing & stopping to buy gifts.  














Later, we asked Narki to take us to the best place to watch the Sun set… he did not disappoint! 

At El Morro, we got the best view of our entire visit! We caught the sunset & snapped some great shots… we told Narki, that of our entire trip, this was his winning suggestion. 



I hope you enjoyed these photos… & I hope to see you in Cuba… soon! 

*Here are a few tips for visiting Cuba: 

1. Don’t be afraid. After experiencing this beautiful country, I must say, they seem very happy, welcoming & well balanced. Tourism is alive & well there. U.S. citizens are the only newbies. 

2.  U.S. tourist travel to Cuba remains prohibited. You must obtain a license from the Department of Treasury or your travel must fall into one of 12 categories of authorized travel listed here.

3.  Book your place through Airbnb. Hotels can be pricey in Cuba. Get the experience of living like a local, surrounded by locals! Click here to book where we stayed. 

4.  U.S. CARDS WILL NOT WORK THERE! Take enough cash to cover your entire stay. In fact, whatever you think you will spend, take $100-$200 “emergency cash” more than that. Trust me! *The Cuban government requires that travelers declare cash amounts over 5,000 USD. 

4.  The Government of Cuba charges a 10% fee for all U.S. dollar cash conversions.  This does not apply to electronic transactions or other currencies.  *We used Euros that we had from our travels to exchange there.  

5. Take lots of hand sanitizer! Other than the bar form, soap is hard to find.

6. Be ready to be “disconnected.” Finding wifi is like finding a unicorn in Cuba. Enjoy the people around you & live in the moment! 

7. Have fun!!! Enjoy every minute of it! 

*Contact Narki (our taxi driver & photographer) by email: nankis@nauta.cu

*Cover photo/ Feature photo edited by Gustavo Gonzalez

Cuba – Day 2: Varadero

After spending the day with our (now) trusted driver, Narki, we were ready for a beach day! It was Cat’s birthday & we wanted to chill on the sexy sands of Varadero, that people described as “divina” and  “incomparable.”  We started our 2 1/2 journey (1954 Chevys don’t speed down the highway) around 10:30am. Along the way, we stopped for breakfast & a few roadies (beers). We treated our driver to breakfast & beer too, of course.  

We thought we’d sleep the entire drive, after our night out, but the scenery was so captivating, that our feasting eyes would not rest. Between the little towns, the jungles, the canyons, the water, & the salsa music Narki was playing, we couldn’t dare sleep & miss out! 

When we finally got to Varadero… I mean, wow! It was the clearest, prettiest water I’ve ever seen in my entire life! 


We picked a spot on the (very open) beach & Naki posted up in the shade. We ordered a bucket of beer & dove into the warm, clear, tranquil water. I couldn’t believe that, even when I was up to my neck in water,  I could watch my toes wiggle! 


The water was perfect for floating and I did a lot of that until about 10 o’clock at night! Amazed by the clarity, I just couldn’t pull myself away… 

We met a group of crazy Canadian girls & a sexy latina who lives in Sweden. We drank, we danced, we sun-bathed, we lived in the moment! 



*Note: US cell phone carriers do not function in Cuba & finding wifi is like finding a unicorn. It’s the perfect place to disconnect from your phone & to connect with life as it comes & the people around you. 

**By the way, Happy birthday, Cat. Here are some shots I took of you that capture you in all your (natural) glory. 




Thank you for letting me spend your birthday with you! 

Havana, Cuba – Day 1 

So… Cuba! Here’s the scoop… I had zero sleep the night leading up to my Cuban vacation. My flight departed at 5am and when I fly that early, I simply cannot sleep. 

We landed in Havana & went straight to our Airbnb. The drive there was so stimulating.  Havana really does feel like time has stopped.. with all the vibrant colors & scenery & Chevys from the 1950’s, it’s hard not to be swept up in the romance! 




Don Reina (our host’s neighbor) greeted us when we pulled up. He showed us around the house & made us a Cuban coffee.  

We got dressed & asked him to show us a good local spot for some food. He took us to an Anthony Bourdain (who is my idol & soulmate) favorite, Paladar Los Amigos.  Later, we would come to find that it’s pretty normal to be sent to restaurants in Cuba. It seemed impossible (in our few days) to find hole-in-the-wall, local joints.  

We bought Reina a beer & talked about our game plan. When he heard that we needed transportation, he walked outside & came back with Narki, a local taxi driver. We were going to tour the city of Havana after dinner. 

We said goodbye to Don Reina & hit the road with Narki, in his pink & silver 1954 Chevy. *Swoon*

We stopped at Plaza de la Revolución, a popular street/square where tons of taxi drivers (with beautifully kept) vintage cars meet; a total (wonderful) tourist trap. In the background, you find two tall buildings, one with a famous image of Che Guevara on it.  


And, the drivers… let me tell you… they are not shy! Flirting with Catalina & Me, they asked us if we’d like photos with their cars… ummmm, yes! 


You see, something you might not know about me:  

I grew up with a dad who owned a car shop that customized lowriders. The guy lived for candy paint jobs, “hitting the hydros,” and speakers that vibrated your seat & the floor under your feet. 

I remember when I was in elementary, “pap” would pick me up from school in a different ride almost everyday. Being in third grade, I was embarrassed when the boys in my class would follow me out just to see which car he’d roll up in… but, now, I realize how effing cool that really was… 

Anyway! Being in that square, with all those cars, and those men giving us all that attention, (but not pushing the line of full-on creep-mode) made me feel beautiful & adored.  It was a different feeling than walking the streets alone in the U.S. & being cat-called.

I decided that if I ever get my heart broken (again), or ever feel insecure,  I’m going back to Cuba to boost my confidence! Those men know how to flatter you, without making your skin crawl.  I felt like a total rockstar in their presence.  


We had a full-on photo shoot & continued on our tour of Cuba. I can’t possibly describe the forest that we went to (where remnants of burned chicken skulls & evidence of Santeria were scattered everywhere, and the trees appeared to be weeping) nor can I describe the neighborhoods, the uniforms of the city officials (females in short, tight skirts & high-heeled shoes), nor the vibrant colors of the convertible, classic cars & buildings… (partly because I lost over 200 photos from this day… but, hey… let your imagination run wild)! 

The day was filled with over-stimulation of all of our senses – as anybody in a new environment might feel, see, smell, feel, experience, etc.  

It was a lot. It was amazing. It was beautiful! 

Chichén Itzá

When we decided to go to Playa del Carmen, one of our motivators was to stop by the Mayan pyramids in Chichén Itzá.  With little research on our part & a lot of help from the front desk staff at our hotel, we booked our tour. 

After three bus rides, we finally made it to the sacred grounds.  We took the tour in Spanish, to be with a smaller crowd & we enjoyed learning all the history.  




Our tour guide, Victor, told us how the Mayan calendar was created, theories on how ceremonies were held, details on the placement of the structures & how the sun would set, creating an image of a serpent climbing up the pyramids.  We were told tales of brutal ball games, where to this day, it’s not quite certain if the winner or the loser was the one to be sacrificed to the gods.  



It was warm and sunny out & not as hot as it usually gets in that area. We were pretty lucky to enjoy such a beautiful day.  We learned so much and made some great memories.